and i love the bit about the purple-skinned lizards – could somebody make me a drawing of that? i could use it as a logo…smile

allright – first there is to note that i only know that much about donna taylor what was cited in scott tuckers (i tried to find the original but was not successfull) – and scott tucker already got it from an so it is very good having you describing the situation yourself.

to a degree i think it was a situation where the problem between the world we would like to have and the world as social reality appears – as refererred to in a recent post

so i guess you were trapped in a situation where there was no easy solution – not working with the police would mean your group banned (not good), working with the police would mean getting into trouble for working with “the enemy” (also not good). and usually one has not much space to move in these situations (i do know them).

it just shows that finding a way between “utopian ideals” and “pragmatism” is not that easy – and there are many other examples to show that. how these two approaches could have could have brought together in this situation i do not know. and i do not know what i would have done in this situation. maybe some reader can come up with a really creative solution?

what i would be interested in would be the reaction of the (organised) gay community in phoenix at the time – what was their take on the situation? did they have any?

and now i have to come back to your last sentence (but then you knew that, you?).
if you have the feeling that this blog is not about lesbians living in steady relationship and raising a child you are right in the way that this is not an experience i made or that i witness in my circle of friends (well, there are steady lesbian relationships). so i am dependent on input from, well, you. but it could be something this blog is about. but you would be wrong if you would have the impression that i do disregard steady relationships and/or raising children. to put it blunt and very simple: if someone decides to live monoganous or decides to live as a sexual is a personal decision. and everybody should respect it and i would find it silly to judge one better then the other. but i might critizise reasonings that try to establish that one style of living would be better then the other. or to cite m: it can be very adventurous having a lover every night, and it can be very adventurous having the same lover every night.

but there is another topic hidden underneath. actually a topic i am planning to one day address in this blog. i already thought about it reading scott tuckers and thought somebody else might be blunt and comment on it. it is very icky and usually not well received only mentioning it (ha! again i know what i talk about). but nobody did. so i will put my foot in. the deciding phrase here is: “They thought I knew what I was talking about because I AM gay.” first i would like to state that someone is an the moment this has been ascribed to from someone else. but i find it interesting the way you formulated this sentence, donna. and of course i would like to ask back: did you know what you were talking about? this should not be misunderstood as an accusation – i just wonder. putting myself in a situation where i would have to be a specialist for woman to woman sex i would feel uneasy (but since having been put in the place of a specialist, i guess i would try to explain instead of pulling out). i just wondered already when reading scott (or, more precise, the of the he cited), if of the uneasyness surrounding that whole story is because you are a lesbian woman? and the way you formulated it, there seems to have been an uneasyness.
and yes, that hidden topic of the sometimes very problematic relationship between gay men and gay woman raises here its ugly head. so i have another question i would like to ask you, donna: do you think that this has been a of the problem? or am i just wildly specualting in the wrong direction?
(the ironic thing here is that the “real tearoom specialist” would be a non-gay, married man (according to laud humphries). )
to make that clear: i am not critizising you stepping up as a specialist – and additionaly seemingly nobody else stepped up. i just wonder how you viewed it at the time.

so it would be great to get some more background information on this whole story – and i would also highly appreciate that some readers of this blog might share their views, too.

Also, remember that your readers might benefit from a little more guidance–you always assume that they know how to calculate BMI, or even that they know what BMI stands for. In the paragraph, you write about the essay in the book as though discussing an assigned reading that the whole class would be familiar with. not sure what 1-3″ are, and many others would be confused as well.

Finally, be careful with those apostrophes. Adding to a word makes it possessive, not plural. So when I write about the bone that belongs to the dog, I write “the bone” — using to show possession — but when I write about the companions, I write “all of the dogs” — using no apostrophe to describe several dogs.

Cops casually admit it but, I have watched a ton of reality crime shows over the years and seen many detectives say a psychic helped them get to the bottom of a cold case. I explain it and neither can they but, it would appear that not everything in modern life can be solved by science.

all pretty interesting.

I dated a white woman who said Black men are ugly and she would never bother with them. So there are some out there that brainwashed by the MSM.

In my opinion, these women who are with Black men get the man they want or any man who would commit to them, so they grab anything that would bother if even just for sex.

This would also explain the number of white mothers pushing a stroller all by themselves with a mix raced baby because the father was some loser who care.

Confidence however is definitely the number one factor when it comes to getting women. I am used to be in great shape and was always told how good looking I am, but guess what . . . I am super shy, but even so I have had women here and there come on to me. If I was brimming with self confidence and wanted the lifestyle I can imagine the sheer number of women I could sleep with.

However even if not shy that is not me, and I just would prefer a nice looking in shape girl who is level headed and would like to raise a family. And though she white, that is what I have.